Terminology for older women dating younger men
In many swinging clubs clicks are formed based on how one looks.
Yes, there are still those that prefer the “beautiful” people.
Countless women have expressed joy at finally being able to wear the sexy clothes they wouldn’t dare put on anywhere else in public.
They talk about a boost in self-confidence, how they feel desire when men look at them approvingly.
I hear this often from people who know of my research with the swinging population, which they consider deviant and suspicious.
A colleague once commented that “swinging” wives are to be pitied since they have to “endure” these unrealistic demands from overbearing and oversexed husbands, and they should be viewed as victims of this male-dominated lifestyle.
Rules: Every couple starts with rules that are generally designed to deal with each individual’s insecurities.
“Even husbands get involved in preparing their wives before going to a swinging event.
Who cares if nipples are showing or camel toe is visible, it’s all part of the fun,” said one of my interviewees.
The man, most often, abides by the decisions of his female companion.
For the most part women are in control, according to data.It has often been said in the swinging community that women control what happens in swinging. After the initial nervousness wears off, it is the women who have the final say on who “parties with whom” and how (couples only, girl on girl, threesomes, group sex, including the enforcement of safe sex rules).